You might be thinking, “Why would I want or need sexual healing? I don’t think I do.” The answer begins way back in a time when we, as souls, were in remembrance of our connection with Spirit. In this time, it was impossible for us to live as disconnected, alienated individuals. We moved with Spirit and Spiritual Forces in every way and whenever one of us seemed to be shifting away, others were available for healing and returning that individual to the natural attunement with Spirit. We could think of this as a time of Sacred Living when everything that humans were engaged in was sacred and spiritual because of their living union with Spirit.
Gradually the thought and fear that we could exist alone, without Spirit, our Beloved Guide, took hold and affected how we perceived ourselves and the world we created. We listened intently to the doubts that began to run through the mind. “What if I can’t be healed? Where is my Beloved Guide? Why am I here alone? No one loves me. I deserve to be punished.” and other such thoughts were reflected into the worldly reality that we created and as a result, lack and poverty, violence and alienation, and other traumas began to show themselves, serving to reinforce to us that we were indeed alone and without Guidance.
The body that was once a perfect reflection of our Spiritual Self, densified and crystallized, hardened into a form that held and exhibited the traumas of our thoughts and the resulting actions. It became a perfect reflection of our confusion and amnesia about our Spiritual Self. The part of the mind that listened so well, and orchestrated the defenses against the doubts and fears became known to us as the ego and we came to believe in its guidance and power over us. We also came to believe that the ego and not our Spiritual Source was the voice of reason and survival.
Sexuality is at the root of our survival as a biological species and our self concept and sense of self worth are intricately tied in. What could be more at the core of the concerns of the ego and the body? Life, death, mating, how we perceive our own value, and personal appearance, are all issues related to our sexuality and self concept. Through our sexuality, we meet full force some of our most urgent physical needs as well as profound spiritual needs. Sexual healing can help you integrate these aspects of yourself, unlocking powerful healing.
Sexual Healing can open up vast amounts of energy that are currently being blocked up or used to hold onto a status quo that may be familiar, but is not optimal for your personal growth. The energy that human beings share sexually is the same energy that is shared in every other way, in every aspect of life. Sexuality is part of living, and so is walking and talking, cooking, writing, gardening, and so on. It is all Living Energy and Spiritual Force. When souls are in remembrance of their connection with Spirit, all is sacred. It’s not possible to conceive and create a world that is not sacred. Sexual Healing has the power to open our bodies and minds to greater and greater levels of Spiritual remembrance. It can help us heal shame, guilt, low self worth, addiction, grief, lack, numbness, and many other issues that can inhibit our natural enjoyment of life. It can be a vehicle that opens us to the experience of love in new and expanded ways, to Unconditional Love.
Spirit, of course, hasn’t gone anywhere. The Spiritual Force is ever present. If it wasn’t, we would have no life at all. But most of us in our current state of mind are aware of only a fraction of our potential. How do you know if you need or could benefit from sexual healing? Check in and ask. If you have experienced sexual abuse, then it’s possible that sexual healing can very specifically address your needs, and it is important to proceed with care. Find a healer who can address spiritual, emotional, and physical needs. Whether or not sexual abuse is an issue for you, are there ways in which you limit yourself and hold back? Do you have fears, shames, and inhibitions that prevent you from experiencing the connections and intimacy that you desire with others? Do you have a nagging feeling that there is more of yourself and of life to know and experience? Does your life reflect love, peace, and joy on a regular basis? Do you want to experience and feel Unconditional Love? The thought of sexual healing can bring up some trepidation and not everyone will say yes, but the rewards reach into all areas of your life and can bring you home to a sense of yourself as divine and your life as sacred.
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Tantra is an approach to life that essentially says there is one energy or force that pervades everything and that all of life is sacred. From a Tantric point of view, healing and personal growth are accomplished by seeking out and releasing that which blocks our awareness of this essential truth, deepening into our experience of this truth, and bringing it forth in all aspects of our lives. The fact that we have pain and struggle is due to the fact that we do not consistently remember the sacredness of life (our completely integrated place in the cosmos) and actually feel disconnected from it.
Tantric Healing offers a way to bring unity to all levels of our being. By opening up to deeper levels of self love, we are then able to encompass greater amounts of love and compassion for all that we believe we’re disconnected from and that seem to be outside of us, our partners, friends, family members, careers, possessions, pets, plants, the world, and so on. Self love deepens into unconditional love for all of life, which is the ultimate vehicle, the healing medicine that creates miracles within us. This fundamental shift resonates into all aspects of our lives, creating a deeper, richer sense of satisfaction and fulfillment, offering us the confidence to know we are capable of reaching our potential and accomplishing our dreams.
